The story of Lao Wang's broken watch

One day, when Lao Wang got up in the morning to brush his teeth, he put his watch next to the sink. His wife was afraid that the watch would get wet, so he put it on the dining table. When my son went to the table for breakfast, he accidentally touched his watch on the ground and broke it. When Lao Wang saw that his watch was broken, he was very angry. He scolded his son severely and beat him. At the same time, he told his wife that she owed money. The wife was not convinced, and they had a quarrel. In a fit of anger, Lao Wang slammed the door and drove directly to the company, only to find that he had forgotten to bring his briefcase, which contained the very important documents submitted with the client today. So he quickly drove back to get it, and the result was that his wife had gone to work and was not at home, and he had left his keys at home. Lao Wang had to call his wife hurriedly to open the door. The wife came back in a hurry again, because she was so anxious, she accidentally sprained her foot when she took the steps. Lao Wang got the document and hurried back to the company, and the result was that the customer had gone. The boss severely criticized Lao Wang and deducted all his annual bonus. When his wife's foot was injured, Lao Wang had to ask for leave from the company to accompany his wife to the hospital to see a doctor, and the result of the total attendance award was lost. My son had to take an exam this morning, because he was scolded by Lao Wang in the morning, he was in a bad mood all day, and the paper was handed in without much writing. The school teacher called Lao Wang and asked him to talk. Lao Wang has to go to the hospital to take care of his wife, go to the school to talk to the teacher, and write a letter to apologize to the boss of the company. In fact, the whole thing is because of a watch, the watch broke can only bring 10% of the loss, but because this 10% of the loss, constantly amplified by their emotions, finally caused 90% of the loss to them. This is how destructive emotions can be for them, and this is the daily norm for most of us. You should gasp when you hear that. This story tells us that people in life often worry about some trivial things. Everyone will encounter unpleasant people and things, but we must remember to meet bad people don't care, don't entangled in bad things, the more care, the more entangled, the more will be mutually destructive, to get out in time, control their emotions, will encounter a better self